Tuesday, November 22, 2016

Just For Fun

Ladies, WITHOUT prompting, ask your husband/boyfriend/fiancé these questions and write EXACTLY what they say. The outcome can be hilarious.
•What is something I always say?
What do you think?
•What makes me happy? 
Sam Heughan with no clothes on
•What makes me sad?
not being around my old family so much
•How tall am I? 
5’ 6’
•What's my favorite thing to do? 
scrapbooking and editing pics on computer
•What do I do when you're not around?
scrapbooking, editing pics, facebooking, visiting family
•If I become famous, what will it be for? 
biggest Outlander fan
•What makes you proud of me? 
your motherly skills
•What is my favorite food?
some type of corn tortilla, dip, avocado
What is my favorite restaurant? 
Tampico’s
•Where is my favorite place to visit?
Viet fu-- Nam
•If I could go anywhere, where would it be?
Vietnam
•Do you think you could live without me?
I didn’t ask him. (He has so I’m sure he could)
•How do I annoy you?
you’re doing it now (asking him questions). Not paying bills
•What is my favorite movie? 
Dirty Dancing, Grease, The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas
•Who is my celebrity crush?
that dude Jamie

•You get a phone call that says I'm in trouble, who am I with?
Jessica (he started to say Toni).

Sunday, November 13, 2016

I Once was Where You Are

 Yes, I once was where you are.  I felt like you, thought like you.  It's almost unsettling. So many thoughts. Thoughts about family, about the guy on the receiving end of my love and affection, about spending nights together, cuddling, about careers and setting the world on fire.

  Then life happened. We got caught up in life. Babies, jobs, attention from the wrong places, stress, overwhelmed, non-communication, rejection, lies. The best of times, the worst of times.  Very cliche but very true.

   No one starts out in the prime of their life and hopes to not only do stupid things, but hurtful things.  Don't be judgmental. You simply never know what bridge you will have to cross, even when it seems like the most FAR-FETCHED  idea ever.  It can happen to you.

  Be careful on those judgements. I don't promise many things but I do promise they will come back to you. It's the reap what you sow logistics of life.

   Pick your arguments. Being "right" isn't all it's cracked up to be.  My right may not be your right at this moment, and it may never be. But there may come a day, when you not only understand but actually change your view of this "right".  I have done it more than once. Ironically, it seems the older I get, the more it happens.  It's all about perception, experience, and current spot in life.